12 Ways To Say No Gracefully (Without Saying “Maybe Later”)

Grace: (n)simple elegance or refinement of movement; courteous goodwill. We all want connection. Saying no can feel terrifying, especially if you are afraid of losing connection with someone you care about. Rejecting someone y [...]

12 Ways To Say No Gracefully (Without Saying “Maybe Later”)2021-02-17T15:22:09-08:00

16 Ways to Talk About Consent (That Are Pretty Sexy…)

Here's a stack of wonderful ways to check in with your partner, to find out more of what they want, and to communicate your own desires. Try some today! "Do you like when I...?" "I like when you..." "Will you...?" "How does th [...]

16 Ways to Talk About Consent (That Are Pretty Sexy…)2021-02-21T18:15:47-08:00

What Do I Do When I’m A Maybe?

Several years ago, I co-founded a touch-and-communication workshop called Cuddle Party. In it, we have rules that say that if you're a yes, say Yes. If you're a no, say No. And if you're a maybe, say No. (Because you can alway [...]

What Do I Do When I’m A Maybe?2021-02-21T18:21:27-08:00

The Four Monogamies (Which Ones Matter To You?)

What is monogamy? Judging from the length of the Wikipedia entry, that's not a simple question to answer. Yet monogamy is a fundamentally assumed aspect of relationships in our culture, a starting point that is embraced (with [...]

The Four Monogamies (Which Ones Matter To You?)2021-03-16T09:31:45-07:00
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