Do you ever just need a hug? Or want to be held and gently stroked? Or maybe you want to wrestle, stretch or feel constricted? Maybe you just want to sink into another person's arms, or hold someone yourself. If any of these ri [...]
Why You Should Write An Erotic Handbook Have you ever wished someone would just give you a handbook about how your sexuality works? Or a menu of what you like so you can figure out what you want? Are you on a quest to learn as [...]
The holidays are upon us, and with them… EXPECTATIONS. Yours. Other people’s. Tradition. Obligation. All of that stuff. Getting through the holidays without burning yourself out or losing sight of your values can be quite a [...]
New Year New You? That’s what all the advertisements say right now. It’s a new year, you should lose weight. It’s a new year, you should make more money. It’s a new year, it’s time to finally find a partner. It’s a new year, b [...]
The world is not friendly to our desires. In over a decade of relationship coaching and sex ed, I’ve talked with thousands of people about why they don’t ask for what they want. Reasons include: not knowing what to want, not h [...]