Why You Should Write an Erotic Handbook

Why You Should Write An Erotic Handbook Have you ever wished someone would just give you a handbook about how your sexuality works? Or a menu of what you like so you can figure out what you want? Are you on a quest to learn as [...]

Why You Should Write an Erotic Handbook2022-03-28T14:47:28-07:00

New Year, New You?

New Year New You? That’s what all the advertisements say right now. It’s a new year, you should lose weight. It’s a new year, you should make more money. It’s a new year, it’s time to finally find a partner. It’s a new year, b [...]

New Year, New You?2021-08-18T01:03:08-07:00

27 Alternatives To Asking “Is This Okay?”

When it comes to sexytimes, we all want to know if what we’re doing in bed is working for our partner. Unfortunately, knowing what or how to ask doesn’t always come as second nature. You fumble, try to read clues and more ofte [...]

27 Alternatives To Asking “Is This Okay?”2021-08-18T01:04:09-07:00

How to Give Feedback During Sexytimes

So there you are, in bed, having an.... okay time. It's not that there's anything wrong exactly. It's just not... right either. Telling your partner you want something different during sex than what they’re doing can be terrif [...]

How to Give Feedback During Sexytimes2021-08-18T01:06:30-07:00

Sex Culture Revolutionary: An Interview with Polly Superstar

(Originally published Feb 2015) I first met Polly Superstar in early 2008, when I was visiting San Francisco from New York. Scheduled to be there for nine weeks while teaching and taking classes, I somehow landed at (and basic [...]

Sex Culture Revolutionary: An Interview with Polly Superstar2021-08-04T09:26:19-07:00
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